Giving Thanks and the Festival of Lights: Two Holidays Come Together

Giving Thanks and the Festival of Lights: Two Holidays Come Together

Giving Thanks and the Festival of Lights: Two Holidays Come Together

The first night of Hanukkah begins in November this year, just three days after Thanksgiving. They are two separate, unrelated holidays celebrated for different reasons with unique traditions, but when you think about it, they actually have a great deal in common.

Charlotte Jewish News November 2021
By Julie Loftis

The first Thanksgiving meal was a celebration among colonists and Indigenous Americans, an event commemorating the end of a successful harvest despite fighting the harsh winter and widespread disease. Pilgrims in attendance, many of whom had sought refuge in the new land to escape religious persecution, were able to enjoy religious freedom.

According to Tzvi Freeman on Chabad.org, “That’s Hanukkah, as well: a narrative deeply embedded in the collective Jewish psyche of how we fought back against religious oppression in our own land, earned our freedom, and thanked G-d for the miracles.”

Today we celebrate the warmth of the season of overcoming obstacles and focusing on gratitude during the Thanksgiving meal and lighting of menorahs.

Lighting the menorah commemorates the miracle of the oil that lasted eight days instead of one. Hanukkah, also known as the Festival of Lights, reminds us to bring light into dark, hope where there had been none. We can symbolically spread light in our community by carrying out our task of tikkun olam, repairing the world. Our world can be transformed by kindness. However, during a holiday season when giving thanks is the norm, Jewish Family Services (JFS) is responding to the needs of those who have a hard time seeing the light or finding thankfulness in their world.

During this holiday season, JFS works hard to not only respond to people’s day-to-day challenges but also to ensure that members of our community who are struggling can also enjoy some of the holiday traditions many of us take for granted. It is also when we rely on those who want to help support our efforts. Below are just a few ways that you can help JFS provide individuals and families with the opportunity to celebrate the miracle of the Festival of Lights or truly give thanks over a Thanksgiving meal and meet the ongoing needs of our community.

Donate to the food pantry: Food is a must for any holiday! During this time of year, we stock up the pantry to make sure everyone in our community has the necessary supplies to “fix all the trimmings” for a holiday meal and that nobody goes hungry.

Grocery gift cards: For some families, purchasing a traditional Thanksgiving turkey dinner could mean not paying a utility bill or purchasing gas for their car. For Thanksgiving, JFS supplements food pantry orders with gift cards to allow families to enjoy the traditional Thanksgiving dinner. Gift cards ranging from $10 to $50 can help families with needs ranging from purchasing just the turkey to those who need help with the full meal.

Dreidel Drive (October 11-November 10): Help us bring connections, smiles, and light to children, grandparents, seniors, and survivors to celebrate this joyous holiday. Participation is easy — purchase a gift card, indicate the amount on the gift card, and turn it in to JFS. Preferred gifts cards include Target, Walmart, grocery stores, or Amazon (hard copy, no digital gift cards, please).

Family to Family Annual Campaign: While the holiday season may last a couple of months, the needs of our community last throughout the year. Our Family to Family campaign is a major source of funding that ensures we can meet the needs of those in our community affected by issues such as mental health, aging, food and financial insecurity, and family violence all year long.

Volunteer your time: JFS has a variety of opportunities, including helping the food pantry, visiting seniors, assembling and/or delivering birthday bags or holiday bags, and many other ways you can contribute your time.

To get more information on any of these opportunities to support our community, please visit our website at www.jfscharlotte.org or call us at (704) 364- 6594. Donations and gift cards can be mailed to Jewish Family Services, 5007 Providence Rd., Suite 150, Charlotte, NC 28226.

Back to School in 2021: An Emotional Roller Coaster

Back to School in 2021: An Emotional Roller Coaster

Back to School in 2021: An Emotional Roller Coaster

Typically going back to school in the fall is both exciting and stressful for students. It is a time filled with the excitement to see friends but also with the anxiety and anticipation of not knowing what the year will bring. However, this coming school year will be anything but typical. Following the “Year of the Pandemic,” so much is unknown.

By Howard Olshansky, JFS Executive Director

While most students were back in school at the end of last school year, the entire year was tumultuous. As we approach another school year, it is uncertain whether things will really be back to normal. There is some anxiety around who is and who isn’t vaccinated. Questions about masks and virus variants remain. At a time when anxiety and mental health issues for teens have escalated, there is concern about how students may handle these uncertainties.

According to an April article in “Psychiatry Advisor,” mental health issues were already on the rise with youth prior to the pandemic. Survey results from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention show increasing rates of U.S. high school students experiencing persistent sadness or hopelessness (from approximately 26% in 2009 to 37% in 2019), serious contemplation of suicide (from 14% to 19%), suicide planning (from 11% to 16%), and suicide attempts (from 6% to 9%).

Early findings indicate that these issues are being further exacerbated by the current crisis, with individuals with preexisting psychological problems at higher risk. The results show increased symptoms of depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder among youth of various age groups.

The concerns are not limited to middle and high school students. Children in elementary school have also been negatively affected by the pandemic and virtual learning. Learning development may have been delayed, and previously learned social behaviors may have been forgotten.

Compounding the issue is the fact that our school systems are significantly understaffed to provide student support services. In Mecklenburg County, the staffing for psychologists, social workers, and counselors is less than 50% of what is considered best practice, which means that if students contact a professional at school for emotional support, there is a good chance they may not get the attention they need.

Dr. Neha Chaudhary, child and adolescent psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School, developed some tips on how to alleviate some of the anxiety of returning to school:

It’s good to plan ahead. As much as possible, learn protocols and routines for your child’s school. The more they know, the less anxious they will be.

Let’s talk about our worries. The more your children share what they are worried about, the more you can help them plan for how to deal with the situation.

Talking it out may also reveal other issues you can plan for.

Anticipate some anxiety and nerves. Acknowledging that it is OK and normal to be anxious will help assure your children that there is nothing wrong with them. It also opens up the opportunity to discuss ways to alleviate their anxiety. Talk about strategies such as breathing exercises, especially for students who may already have some history of anxiety.

Proactively check in about mental health. This is especially important so that your children know you understand that they may be feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed and that you are there to support their emotional needs. If you don’t feel as if they will open up to you, try to identify someone in their life who can fill this role.

Don’t expect everything to change overnight. Recognize it takes time to adjust. You may see some decline in grades or behaviors. Don’t ignore these signs, but also don’t overreact.

Talk with your child about what is going on and strategize on how to manage the situation.

Be present and consistent. Your children need stability at a time when they may be feeling vulnerable and unsettled. Knowing you are there and things are stable, consistent and, for younger children, routine will help them feel calm and give them a sense of security.

Seek professional help if necessary. If you are seeing symptoms that are more than you can handle or your child doesn’t seem to be able to adjust, seek professional counseling. Jewish Family Services can help.

Giving Thanks and the Festival of Lights: Two Holidays Come Together

Taking Care of Yourself Helps Everyone

Taking Care of Yourself Helps Everyone

I’m sure when the founder of the Evolve to Live organization created the idea of September as Self-Care Awareness Month, she did not make any connection between self-care and the beginning of the Jewish High Holidays.
Charlotte Jewish News September 2021
By Howard Olshansky JFS Executive Director

The idea of self-care awareness is to recognize the importance of taking care of ourselves if we are going to maximize our own functioning or help others. Self-care is often described as performing a series of actions to improve physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

As we all know, the High Holidays are a time of reflection. An article in the Washington Jewish Week newspaper references the time between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, the Ten Days of Repentance, as a period of self-betterment, healing and, of course, repentance. So it is a time when we ask for forgiveness but also when we reflect on our future. We set goals and think about how we can improve our lives and ourselves. The concept of self-betterment is what selfcare is all about. We commit to improving our physical, financial, and spiritual health.

Unfortunately, the one area that often gets missed in caring for ourselves is emotional health. Activities that reduce stress, such as carving out personal time or meditation/relaxation exercises, are often seen as indulgent or self-centered. It is a pervasive belief that time spent doing something such as relaxing and reading a book is time that could be better spent being productive. However, it is important to understand that emotional health has a direct relationship to all other aspects of life. For years, the data have shown that mental health can affect physical health, manifesting in ways such as high blood pressure, diabetes, headaches, and heart illness, but we often don’t think about this in our day-to-day lives. Emotional health also affects other aspects of daily living, such as our sleeping habits and our motivation, which then sabotage our success in endeavors such as weight management, exercise, and work productivity.

In an article in Psychology Today, Tchiki Davis Ph.D. identified the following 12 tips for self-care:

Make sleep part of your selfcare routine. Not enough sleep can negatively affect both physical and mental health. Stick to a regular schedule that ensures adequate sleep.

Take care of your gut. This can have a significant impact on your health, well-being, and feelings of vitality. The types of foods you eat crucially affect the bacteria that live in your stomach, resulting in a cascade of either positive or negative outcomes.

Exercise daily. It helps you physically and mentally, boosting your mood and reducing stress and anxiety. Any exercise will do as long as you make it a routine.

Eat right. The food we eat has the potential to keep us healthy. Some of the most amazing selfcare foods include fatty fish, blueberries, nuts, green leafy veggies, and brassicas, like broccoli.

Say no to others, and say yes to self-care. Learning to say no is really hard. However, if you’re already stressed or overworked, saying yes to loved ones or coworkers can lead to burnout, anxiety, and irritability, which will not help them or you.

Take a self-care trip. Getting away for a weekend now and then can help you disconnect, relax, and be rejuvenated.

Spend time outside. Studies have shown that getting outside can help reduce fatigue, making it a great way to overcome symptoms of depression or burnout. Getting outside can also help you sleep better at night.

Let a pet help with self-care. From providing unconditional love to companionship, pets can be hugely beneficial for self-care.

Get organized. This is often the first step to becoming healthier because it allows you to figure out exactly what you need to do to take better care of yourself.

Cook at home. Even if it’s only once a week, consider making a healthy meal instead of ordering takeout or eating fast foods.

Read a book on self-care. It will take you away from your electronic devices and provide additional tips.

Schedule your self-care time. If it’s planned and scheduled, you’re more likely to follow through.

A line from a blog by Chris Harrison, former writer/editor for the Union of Reform Judaism, sums this up perfectly, “T’shuvah is a vital aspect of the High Holidays, so it’s important to embrace these holidays from a strong foundation rooted in selfcare.”

Therapist (Licensed)

Therapist (Licensed)

Therapist (Licensed)

 

Job Title: Therapist (Licensed)
Program: Counseling Center
Population Served: Children & Adolescents, Adults, and Families
FSLA Status: Exempt 

POSITION SUMMARY:
The Therapist, under the direction and supervision of the Director of Programs and Services, is responsible for the delivery and coordination of therapeutic services to clients enrolled in Jewish Family Services of Greater Charlotte, Inc.  The Therapist is responsible for all functions related to managing, supporting, and facilitating appropriate services to meet the needs of clients and families.

Employment Classification:
The Therapist is a full-time, exempt position.

Duties/Responsibilities:

Direct Clinical and Case Management 

  • Provide individual, group, family therapy, or care coordination for clients.
  • Conduct therapy assessments to determine the appropriate treatment needs of the clients and families and evaluate and assess ongoing treatment needs.
  • Develop, coordinate, and facilitate therapy treatment planning to include formulation, reviews, and re-formulations as directed. 
  • Provide on-going therapy in the most appropriate setting to meet the clients needs, i.e. office, home or community setting.
  • Develop and implement crisis stabilization plans.
  • Conduct case management assessments to determine the financial, housing, medical, emotional, and physical needs of clients and families. 
  • Develop and implement short-term and long-term goals with case management clients, with the goal of long-term resolutions and self-sufficiency. 
  • Provide ongoing case management services to evaluate and reassess client and family progress with short and long-term goals and make modifications to these as necessary.
  • Refer clients to appropriate community resources and advocate for or assist the client in obtaining such services. 
  • Where appropriate, conduct parenting classes and provide parenting support
  • Attend appropriate community committee meetings as they relate to the needs of clientele as a part of treatment.
  • Participate in on-call rotation as clinical therapist for JFS.
  • Confer with Jewish clergy, and other community professionals regarding cases, as appropriate.
  • Serve as a consultant regarding mental health and case management issues for members of the Jewish Community.
  • Submit timely documentation and maintain accurate, complete clinical and case management documentation of all assessments, services, interventions, treatment plans, and client related activities, and prepare statistical data and reports as requested.
  • Establish and maintain close working relationship with clients, families, and other community professionals. 
  • Maintain strict adherence to the standards and guidelines of all state and private Insurance Panels.
  • Participate in and/or lead meetings with other professionals at JFS or in the community, as needed.
  • Lead community outreach efforts, such as visits to schools, physicians, and community agencies, in an effort to market and grow programs and services. 
  • Coordinate and/or develop workshops and lecture series.
  • Participate in all assigned staff and supervisory meetings as well as in service trainings and staff development activities.
  • Provide Quality Assurance of clinical documentation and chart auditing for compliance purposes.
  • Ensures that community resource information is kept updated and that staff is kept informed.
  • Maintain compliance with professional licensing requirements, i.e. training and license renewal.
  • Other duties as they relate to furthering the mission of Jewish Family Services.

Knowledge of:

  • NASW Code of Ethics and Best Practices
  • Public and Private resources available in the Greater Charlotte community.
  • Bio-psychosocial approach to evaluating individuals and families.
  • Expanded principles of psychology, social work, juvenile justice, and other social sciences.
  • Mental Health assessment, diagnosis, and treatment.
  • Crisis Intervention and management.
  • Needs Assessment techniques and strategies.
  • Problem-solving and conflict-resolution.
  • Child welfare and adult abuse laws, regulations, and guidelines.
  • Insurance documentation standards and guidelines.
  • Individual, Group, Couples, and Family Therapy.

Demonstrated Skills:

  • Adheres to NASW Code of Ethics in all practices.
  • Communicate effectively, both orally and in writing.
  • Ability to establish and maintain professional relationships and boundaries with client/families, staff and community agencies.
  • Ability to plan, organize, and direct clinical and program activities.
  • Use effective time management skills to complete required job duties.
  • Ability to work independently, with minimal supervision.
  • Develop, implement, and evaluate program and client goals and objectives.
  • Conduct individual, family and community needs assessment; develop, implement, and evaluate related services.
  • Strong analytical and problem-solving abilities. Effective use of individual, family, and group therapeutic techniques.
  • Good computer knowledge and skills. Must be able to use Microsoft Office programs and electronic health record.

Minimum Qualifications:

Graduate of an accredited college or university with a Master’s Degree in a Clinical Field. Two years of verified, full-time, post-graduate accumulated MH/DD/SA experience providing direct service to the population served. NC State licensure as LCSW preferred. Other Master’s level licensed professionals may be considered based on acceptance from insurance payers.

To apply for this position, please email resume to:  info@jfscharlotte.org