JCRI – Welcoming the Stranger to the Table

JCRI – Welcoming the Stranger to the Table

JCRI – Welcoming the Stranger to the Table

A panel of national and local speakers address the impacts of COVID on those seeking assylum. Learn more by participating in the 3rd Annual Welcoming the Stranger to the Table meeting/presentation.

Grief & Loss Support Group

Grief & Loss Support Group

Grief & Loss Support Group

Loss can be difficult, especially during the COVID era. At JFS, we know that talking about it can help. Get support from this online, 4-session Grief & Loss Support Group.

 

Pinwheel Garden Planting – CANCELLED

Pinwheel Garden Planting – CANCELLED

Pinwheel Garden Planting – CANCELLED

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month.  Please join us as we gather the community to stand together against child abuse. 

Covid 19

Covid 19

Covid 19

Dear Jewish Family Services Stakeholder,

Shalom Park is committed to the safety, health and well-being of our Members, Program participants, guests, and Staff. We are always vigilant with our protocols and the measures that we take to ensure the safety and well-being of the community. 

We want to assure you that the Shalom Park Senior Leadership is keeping up to date on the Corona-virus (COVID-19), is listening to recommendations coming f rom appropriate authorities, and taking proactive steps to minimize any potential spread.

In an effort to ensure the health and well-being of our clients, staff and volunteers, JFS is asking that you follow the reconunended protocols identified in this letter. We would re-quest that if you are sick and scheduled for an appointment, please call to cancel your ap-pointment and we are happy to reschedule your appointment when you are feeling better.

The following are the specific steps that the Shalom Park leadership is taking in an ongoing effort to prevent the spread of illness within the community:

  • Our cleaning personnel will continue the use of high-level antiviral cleaning agents to properly disinfect the entire facility on a daily basis.
  • We have reviewed our daily cleaning and sanitation protocol for all program ar-eas and have modified and enhanced daily procedures where necessary and ap-propriate, and we have taken steps to ensure that we will have the necessary sup-plies to do this.
  • Our staff are being reminded and retrained on procedures for sanitizing toys, equipment, as well as high use surfaces throughout our facilities.
  • We will be making sure that all of our youth program participants will engage in frequent and proper hand-washing and that we remind them about proper usage of tissues and their disposal for runny noses.

As the Shalom Park staff works hard in the above-mentioned ways, there are steps that we would like to ask you, our valued members and guest to take to aid in our efforts to promote and maintain a healthy environment:  

  • If you are not feeling well and exhibit any symptoms of illness, please refrain from using the facilities until all symptoms have subsided. If you have a fever please make sure that you are fever free for 24 hours without the use of fever reducing medication before returning to the LJCC to use the facilities or partici-pate in any programs.
  • If you are planning to do any personal travel in the coming months and during the upcoming spring break season, please take a moment to familiarize your-selves with information about the areas where infection rates are high and the chance for disease transmission is heightened. You can find in formation on the CDC’s Coronavirus Disease Travel Page HERE.
  • Please wash your hands f requently, consider carrying hand sanitizer to use if soap and water is not readily available, cover your mouth and nose when sneez-ing (if a tissue is not readily available use the upper part of your arm/sleeve), and properly dispose of tissues and paper towels in appropriate trash receptacles.

For any of you who would like more information about the Corona virus, frequently asked questions, or how to mitigate the transmission of the disease, please use the following links for your review: CDC Coronavirus Fact Sheet I and CDC Coronavirus Fact Sheet 2.

‘I was there, I saw it happen’: Charlotte Holocaust survivors hope others never forget

‘I was there, I saw it happen’: Charlotte Holocaust survivors hope others never forget

‘I was there, I saw it happen’: Charlotte Holocaust survivors hope others never forget

Monday marks 75 years since the Soviet Union liberated the Auschwitz concentration camp in German-occupied Poland at the end of World War II, and is now observed as International Holocaust Remembrance Day.

By: Mark Becker

CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Eyewitness News reporter Mark Becker spoke with five survivors who now call Charlotte home. They said they will always remember the Holocaust and how they left it behind.

“You know, these memories that come back, it’s torture — torture,” Felix Pierson told Channel 9 at a retirement community in south Charlotte. “Somehow, when we get older, all these happenings from the past keep coming back more than ever before.”

The survivors want to make sure no one forgets about the Holocaust.

“I remember being scared,” Suly Chenkin said. “I remember how my parents sent me away to people they had never met — tossed me over barbed wire.”

She was tossed over the fence in a sack, so she had a chance to live. Chenkin was 3 years old when the Nazis raided a ghetto in Lithuania, where she was living with her parents. The oppressors began rounding up children younger than 12.

“I was hidden in a bunker and survived that raid, but my parents knew that they had run out of time and that’s why they made that horrible decision and sent me away,” Chenkin said. “I was lucky, a woman who was Jewish herself, passing for Christian, saved my life.”

 

“I am the luckiest of survivors that I have ever met in my life,” Daisy Shapiro-Rieke told Channel 9. She was born in Austria and a year later in 1937, her family moved to Hungary, which was also under Nazi control.

They survived because Daisy’s mother was able to buy falsified papers and somehow found the courage to stand up to the soldiers.

“The Nazis would come to our door and say, ‘There are Jewish people here, a truck is waiting,’” Shapiro-Rieke said. “My mother pulled out the falsified documents and said, ‘Yes, my husband is a Jew. He’s in prison, but I am Catholic and so are both of my children.’ And she showed them the falsified documents.”

 

Irving Bienstock was 12 years old living in Dortmund, Germany when Kristallnacht happened, which was when Nazis targeted the Jewish community in Germany.

Kristallnacht, also known as the “Night of Broken Glass,” took place on Nov. 9, 1938.

“Around the middle of the night I was sleeping, and I heard a loud noise in the street,” Bienstock said.

Mobs of Nazis gathered and went from one Jewish home to the next.

“And I got up and looked out from behind the curtain, and I could see the synagogue down the block was burning and there were mobs of people on the street yelling, which meant, ‘Out with the Jews, exterminate them.’ I was scared to death,” he said.

Hanna Adler said, “We looked out, and I saw one of my high school teachers, and they screamed for my father to come out.”

 

Adler was in a small town 25 miles away, where the mob rounded up her father and the other Jewish men.

“And they did terrible things to them,” Adler said. “We could hear the screaming. What they were doing to them? They threw one man from his roof and then they kept saying, ‘Throw the women, too!’ They didn’t do that.”

Her father was beaten badly but somehow survived. Bienstock’s family lived through the terror, too, before leaving Germany.

Pierson wasn’t so lucky.

“Life in Poland was living under anti-Semitism from the day I was born,” Pierson said.

He was 13 years old living in a small town in Poland when the Germans invaded. The horror of war and hate became clear when the Nazis arrested two teenagers he knew for stealing potatoes.

“There was an announcement: ‘The entire town has to come out to the Jewish cemetery to see these two boys hung,’” Pierson said. “And at the age of 13, seeing my friends’ brothers hung, it takes the soul out of you. It takes everything you got in you. It takes everything out.”

In 1944, he was rounded up with the town’s other 3,000 Jews and sent to a concentration camp near Dachau, Germany. He said he was half-dead when U.S. troops finally arrived in 1945.

“In Dachau, there were hundreds of corpses lying on the ground,” Pierson said. He is convinced he survived because of the love and courage of his father.

Chenkin said, “And here, we all have told stories about what our parents did to save us.”

“We survived because someone was very brave and did something that worked, but unfortunately, the whole world stood by and let it happen,” Beinstock said.

The survivors told Channel 9 they will continue to share their stories as long as they can.

“There will come a time when someone will come and say, ‘This never happened,’” Peirson said. “I was there. I saw it happen.”

Charlotte Holocaust survivor remembers childhood, has growing fears

Charlotte Holocaust survivor remembers childhood, has growing fears

Charlotte Holocaust survivor remembers childhood, has growing fears

HARLOTTE, N.C. — Monday is International Holocaust Remembrance Day, marking 75 years since the liberation of the Auschwitz death camp. A Charlotte survivor, Irving Bienstock, is getting ready for a trip to Israel to meet soldiers in the Israel Defense Forces.

It’s something he says he never thought he’d live to see growing up as a young boy during Hitler’s rise to power. But Bienstock is worried about what he’s seeing happening now, scared history could repeat itself. Talking about his life is crucial to Irving Bienstock, especially the most difficult parts. “As many people as I can get to talk to about what happened,” he said. Bienstock grew up in Nazi Germany and survived the Holocaust. As a 6-year-old boy, he watched everything change, his father and uncles were afraid to leave the house, the friends he always played with beat him up and spat on him. “I couldn’t go out to any place,” Bienstock remembered. “If they saw me, they’d chase me.” He said he was fortunate to avoid being put in a death camp, but he lived in fear, separated from his family for long periods of time while six million other Jewish people were killed. Decades later, Bienstock said that fear is back. “As a survivor, I’m scared to death of what’s happening,” he said, pointing out the recent shootings in synagogues. According to the Anti-Defamation League, Anti-Semitism is on the rise in the United States, 11 people killed in a Pittsburgh synagogue in 2018. Bienstock growing concerned the worst part of history will repeat itself. “I hope people don’t believe that it can’t happen here,” he said. “I think it can.” So he talks about it — to anyone who will listen. He speaks at schools and works with the Jewish Family Services of Greater Charlotte to tell his story at different events. Bienstock will take a trip to Israel next month to visit with soldiers on an active base, something he’s always wanted to do. The friends of the IDF gave him a medal of honor for his activism while he was speaking to WCNC Charlotte, telling him he is a hero and inspiration to the soldiers he will meet. “You have to understand what we went through in Germany, to go to the homeland and see police and soldiers, it’s wonderful,” Bienstock says, getting emotional. It’s a day he never thought he’d see 75 years ago.

JFS’s Annual Senior Adult Chanukah Party

JFS’s Annual Senior Adult Chanukah Party

JFS’s Annual Senior Adult Chanukah Party

The 16th Annual Senior Adult Chanukah party is in the books. Seniors, Holocaust survivors, and family members  from all over the community enjoyed a traditional holiday  lunch, the sounds of Viva Klezmer!, hand-made cards from  the students at Charlotte Jewish Day School and everyone  was especially delighted by the performance given by  Charlotte Jewish Preschool.

The Dreidel Drive Was a Success

The Dreidel Drive Was a Success

The Dreidel Drive Was a Success

Jewish Family Services extends  a heartfelt thank you to  everyone who made this year’s  Dreidel Drive an overwhelming  success. Dreidels and stars were  posted on displays throughout  Shalom Park and at the Preschool  on Sardis.

A big thank you to our  partners, too. Almost 300 gifts  were collected and distributed.  Each year we ask our clients to  tell us what they would like for  Chanukah. All sorts of requests  come in. This year, one family  requested bedding and pots and  pans to set up a new apartment,  while another family requested  Legos for their youngest and art  supplies – a sketchbook, pens,  and charcoal pencils for their  teen. One senior asked for a warm  blanket. We know we can count  on our community to bring a little  extra joy to those in our community  who might not otherwise be  able to celebrate.

Growth Drives Future Plans at JFS

Growth Drives Future Plans at JFS

Growth Drives Future Plans at JFS

JFS has been helping the community  for almost 40 years. It has  been the primary resource, and  place to go for those struggling  with mental health, food insecurity,  domestic violence, parenting,  and aging.

 All of the programs  and services are designed to engage,  empower, and enrich with a  goal of stabilizing and enhancing  the lives of those it serves which  is accomplished through four  main areas of focus: Counseling  and Domestic Violence Services,  Senior Engagement and Holocaust  Survivor Programs, Crisis  Response and Assistance, and  Community Programs and Education.  

In order to deliver the most  meaningful, relevant programs  and services that meet the community’s  need, JFS closely monitors  and takes note of emerging  patterns and trends. It’s what  guides the agency and helps determine  its offerings.  

Over the past two years, there  has been a significant rise in the  number of inquiries and requests  for services. This growth is not  just in one main focus area, but  from several. Increased calls for  emergency groceries from our  food pantry, people asking for  assistance with finding affordable  housing, help with navigating  resources, and then there are  those that are asking for increased  dollars amount when facing a financial  crisis. The call volume  and the services delivered have  grown immensely. For example,  in 2018, JFS served more than  twice the number of clients for  therapy then the previous year,  reaching an all-time agency high.  According to Howard Olshansky,  Executive Director, “As JFS has  continued to respond to the growing  needs of our community, it’s  become clear that we need to establish  a plan that allows JFS to  grow its capacity in a way that  ensures our ability to continue to  meet the needs while at the same  time maintaining the quality of  our programs and services.”  

In response to the growing demand,  during this year’s strategic  planning process, JFS identified  priority areas for the organization.  “When we looked at the  data and trends, it became clear  that there were a couple of significant,  pressing areas of need for  our community: older adults and  those coping with mental health  challenges,” stated Olshansky.  The older adult population is  growing in numbers and in geography.  JFS is now responding to  the needs of seniors down in Sun  City, SC, across Union County,  and in Lake Norman. And because  people are living longer  the issues related to aging are  more complex, JFS is creating a  Senior Engagement Department  and has hired a Senior Engagement  Therapist, who specializes  in delivering services in a community-  based setting, as well as  providing traditional therapy services  in the office.  

At JFS, we are also seeing increasing  levels of trauma in individuals,  kids, and families. In  order to respond swiftly and appropriately,  JFS trained and certified  its staff in the Triple P Positive  Parenting Program, which  helps families respond to issues  affecting teens and children and  issues related to topics such as  social media, bullying, depression  and anxiety. Rachel Green,  Program Director, indicated “at  JFS we are continuously looking  at ways to develop and stay on  top of best practices to enhance  the competencies of our staff. In  addition to the parenting training  staff has received, training is  being planned in areas such as  trauma-informed care, diversity  and aging and emotional health.  We want to ensure that JFS is  able to offer a diversity of clinical  interventions to meet the diverse  needs of our clients.”  

Serving the community to the  best of our ability means anticipating  needs and being prepared.  “I’m very proud that we have  always been able to serve those  in need, especially those in crisis.  We have never had to create  a waiting list for services,” said  Olshansky. “When I started here  in 2016 we had nine staff. We  now have 14. In fact, just this past  month, JFS acquired additional  space on Shalom Park because we  ran out of space in our existing offices,”  he added.  

Thanks to the generosity of our  community, we have been able to  grow our financial resources to  support the increased staffing and  meet the growing needs.  

As the needs continue to grow,  as we have seen in 2019, strengthening  our infrastructure is also  one of our strategic priorities. Ensuring  that we are well staffed and  have the administrative, financial,  and technological tools needed  in-house means that our clients  will continue to receive the highest  quality care and best services  possible.Y

JFS Food Pantry – The Need Continues to Grow

JFS Food Pantry – The Need Continues to Grow

JFS Food Pantry – The Need Continues to Grow

The spirit of generosity is perhaps  most evident through the  holiday season. At JFS we are  blessed, year-round, by the generosity  of our community who gives  in so many ways. This month we  shine a light on one of the ways  our community gives to JFS –  through the JFS food pantry. 

As food pantries have grown  across the US, so too has the food  pantry at JFS. What started over  30 years ago, serving just a handful  of clients, helped almost 700  individuals and 336 families last  year. Designed to serve those in  the Jewish community who have  been identified as food insecure,  without the resources to provide  complete meals for themselves or  their families, the JFS food pantry  is a vital part of our Jewish community.  Once qualified, recipients  are given the opportunity to  “shop” every other week, by filling  out a menu request form. And  while some people have a hard  time thinking that Jews anywhere  could be short on food, especially  in Charlotte, the numbers of  people accessing the pantry, the  number of visits to the pantry, and  those calling for emergency bags  of groceries is on the rise.  

The Charlotte community is a  generous one and the pantry benefits  from individual contributors,  affinity groups and larger organizations  that help keep the pantry  stocked and running. JFS Community  Liaison and Volunteer  Coordinator, Roberta Rodgers,  ensures the operations of the pantry  run smoothly. “There are lots  of moving parts to keep the pantry  running and also to ensure that  each client is getting what they  need and want – we do our best,”  Rodgers said. “For some of our  senior clients who are ‘shut-ins,’  who are unable to get to the pantry,  we take their orders over the  phone and ask one of our volunteers  to deliver their order.” 

Rodgers explains that once  a month an order is placed with  Loaves and Fishes, an organization  serving Mecklenburg Country  who is dedicated to supplying  groceries for people in need.  JFS is considered one of their  mini-pantries. Smaller businesses  too like Poppy’s bagels contribute,  allowing our volunteers to  pick up bagels each week. “We  have a lot of volunteers, doing  many different things,” Rodgers  said.  

Frada Mozenter, a retired librarian,  and a dedicated JFS  pantry volunteer for the past 7-½  years organizes and sorts through  incoming donations. She collects  donations from the bins throughout  Shalom Park, completes a  weekly inventory, creates the  menu, and fills client orders. She  has seen many come and go over  the years in the pantry. “When I  no longer see the younger clients,  I often wonder if they got back on  their feet or if they simply came  on a day I was not there, or even  if they’ve moved. I miss talking  with them,” Mozenter said. “I  marvel at their resilience and confident  attitudes, something JFS  helps people with.”  

The Circle of Generous Hearts,  a dedicated group of women who  donate homemade, kosher-style,  individual meals to the JFS Food  Pantry are in large part responsible  for ensuring that the JFS  Pantry can provide Jewish families  with holiday meals for Rosh  Hashanah and Passover. Over the  past 12 months, they’ve provided  1,299 meals to the Pantry; for  everyday needs and for holidays.  One member shared, “We believe  in giving back, and I love to  cook,” she said, “besides, feeding  the hungry is one of the biggest  mitzvahs in Judaism.”  

And thanks to Shalom Park  Community Garden, a place  where Shalom Park community  members have the opportunity for  service, and learning about growing  organic food, the JFS food  pantry clients have received over  150 pounds of fresh produce this  past year, including tomatoes,  squash, peppers, greens, okra,  root vegetables, figs, and grapes.  

And what a blessing it is to see  a child ask for donations to the  JFS food pantry instead of birthday  gifts. We’ve even had adults  do this, too. This sort of giving  is catching on especially at Shalom  Park community and partners,  with food drives held by the  synagogues, schools, library, and  schools. This allows us to provide  supplemental food to clients in  need when they need it the most. 

We are grateful for the outpouring  of support. Each week  a list of items the pantry needs  is listed on the JFS website, at  jfscharlotte.org. The following is  a list of often requested items that  are often difficult to get:  Full size toothpaste, shampoo,  conditioner, bar soap; pasta  sauce, oatmeal, juice boxes,  canned salmon, vegetarian baked  beans, jelly, mayonnaise, ground  coffee, laundry detergent, cookies,  chip, snack items.  Wishing all a happy holiday  season. Thank you for considering  JFS.